TBR Day and Keishon Didn’t Make It

by Avid Reader on October 15, 2008

in Avid Musings

I made a good faith effort. I did! I didn’t get but 30 min­utes to read Tues­day because I was under the weather among other things. I know, excuses, excuses. I plan to still do my review of my regency romance but it just won’t be today (duck­ing for cover).

Where does the time go? We only have two months left for this year’s chal­lenge! For those who are won­der­ing if I shall con­tinue this chal­lenge next year — the answer is yes, I will. There just won’t be any mon­e­tary incen­tive because I be broke. The rest of this post dis­solves into a long rant about my buy­ing habits so I am let­ting you know before you hit the ‘more’ link that the rest of this post is a rant that may or may not make any sense at all.

It begs the ques­tion though as to why we buy so many damn books. And then we don’t read them. It seems crazy when you think about it. I wish I had the dis­ci­pline to read all my new books when I first get them and not set them aside. What I need to do is not buy any­more books until I fin­ish read­ing the new books that I already own. Yeah, right. That’ll never hap­pen. Good idea though.

Another thing that I need to do is not buy so many new books if I am not ready to read them. Oth­er­wise, they get put on the book­shelf, night­stand, up in my closet, etc and so forth. What I need to try really hard to do is stick to my lists of favorites and there aren’t very many on it so scratch that idea. It would also be help­ful if I stop vis­it­ing reader blogs-just kidding-as you all have saved me money and unfor­tu­nately, you’re also help­ing me spend my money too. I need to get that er under con­trol, for real.

I need to uti­lize my local library more because most books I buy are impul­sive buys and more than a few were utter dis­ap­point­ments (and no, don’t ask me which ones).

Have you ever thought of how much your TBR moun­tain is worth? Have you kept the receipts? I don’t want to know because the num­ber would be astro­nom­i­cal (I’ve always wanted to use that word in a sen­tence — astro­nom­i­cal). I’d prob­a­bly faint because not only do I have a TBR pile of dead tree books but I also have a vir­tual library. At Fic­tion­wise, I have over 300 ebooks and no I haven’t read them all.

Any­way, this impul­sively turned into a long rant about my book buy­ing habits. On a more seri­ous note, I will be curb­ing my spend­ing on ebooks and dead tree books. While my TBR pile pro­vides me with com­fort for that rainy day in the future, I also need the space that they occupy.

Over­all, I plan to seri­ously trim down my TBR books and hey, we can do it together, or not. We bought these books and hell, they weren’t cheap. My goal for 2009 is to stick to my lists, try out new authors from the library and decrease my time on the Inter­net (hee). Just let me enjoy the fan­tasy, ok?

/end rant

Please visit the other TBR par­tic­i­pants and enjoy. I would like to thank each one of you for post­ing your reviews on monthly basis. With that said, be good, be bad and be safe as Maili use to say.

For Fur­ther Reading

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Li October 16, 2008 at 7:51 am

LOL @ Christine’s com­ments — so true!

I started off the year by say­ing for every new book I buy, I’d read one off my TBR pile… think that I man­aged one month of doing that.

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Christine October 16, 2008 at 12:17 am

I failed to do my TBR review. Again. I’m ter­ri­ble at this, but will work at being bet­ter at it next year.

I’m right there with you about try­ing not to buy more books and whit­tling down that TBR pile moun­tain, but I don’t know if I have the self con­trol. It’s just that there’s quite a few series that I read and every six months or so a new one comes out and I just have to have it. Or some of my favorite authors start a new series and I just have to have that, too. Or I read these really great reviews about a debut author’s new book or some­thing like that and I just have to have that one, too! There’s no use fight­ing it. I’m too weak.

So who wants to meet me at the book­store tomor­row? Coffee’s on me! :D

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Alyssa October 15, 2008 at 9:03 pm

Read­ing the book early this month saved me, too.

I know what you mean about the book piles … I’m work­ing on get­ting my books con­sol­i­dated (they are every­where right now), and it amazes me how many I have. Yikes. I don’t even want to think about receipts.

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Avid Reader October 15, 2008 at 7:59 pm

I just got home from work after sit­ting in traf­fic from hell. Good to hear that I won’t be alone in my TBR chal­lenge for next year.

I’ve heard about Paper­back Swap and will give it a look. I really need to curb my spend­ing on books, srsly. I have a ton of books that could prob­a­bly last me a good 5 years if I were to read each one on a daily basis. I tried to take a tally of my library a year ago and stopped mid­way when it hit 790. I don’t know how many books I own but I know it’s too many.

I like read­ing new books too but I don’t need to read every­body. I think I’ll just stick to my list of favorites and uti­lize my library a lot more for authors I’m unsure of. The prob­lem with using the library is the wait­ing and wait­ing. My library is pretty good though because for every new release I will usu­ally get the book if I’m in the first spot, two to three weeks after the book’s ini­tial release which isn’t bad.

Appre­ci­ate the com­ments ladies. I’m off to go read some reviews.

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vanessa jaye October 15, 2008 at 6:25 pm

I gave away about 20 boxes of books to Good­will before we moved. Of the books I did bring with me (most of the tbr) I’ve only read maybe 3 out of them in the last year. Mean­while all the new pur­chase have been build­ing up again. I lit­er­ally have bags of books on the bed­room floor. :-P

One good thing though, I’m using the library more. It’s right across the street from the gro­cery store so it makes it easy to visit (and return books before the fines add up) on a weekly basis.

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LesleyW October 15, 2008 at 5:40 pm

Oh and just wanted to add, I will be con­tin­u­ing the TBR post­ing along with you next year. And I really should look at my own book buy­ing habits as well. Maybe for every new book I want to buy, I should (try and) read five books off my TBR pile?

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LesleyW October 15, 2008 at 5:38 pm

Done it! Thank good­ness I was orga­nized this month and read the book early.

LOL — I think this is the first time I’ve posted two reviews on a sin­gle day.

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Kristie(J) October 15, 2008 at 5:14 pm

Oh crap!! I wrote out this real great com­ment and it’s gone!
First off I said that my review will be up shortly.
Sec­ond I said that in my case, I know I have an addictive/obsessive type per­son­al­ity. It would be SO easy for me to get caught up in other more dan­ger­ous kinds of things as an out­let — gam­bling for exam­ple. That’s why I don’t buy lot­tery tick­ets and I’ve only been to a casino once in my life time — and then it kind of scared me. But book buy­ing is safe. No one will be hurt. My fam­ily doesn’t need to stage an inter­ven­tion (although at times I almost think they think of it *g*)
When I do a total on my spread­sheet — it’s pretty scary so I Very Rarely do it.
But
At the end of the day, I have some­thing to show for this addic­tion instead of con­stant hang­overs with huge blocks of miss­ing time where I could have done who knows what — or some­one named Bruno after me to break my legs.

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LesleyW October 15, 2008 at 5:06 pm

OMG — I thought it was next Wednes­day. Okay have my review ready to go luck­ily I read the book bet­ter get typing.

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Lisa October 15, 2008 at 2:08 pm

My TBR is in the hun­dreds, lit­er­ally. It is start­ing to stress me out and I am get­ting rid of some. I can’t stand not hav­ing the new stuff, because what if I miss some­thing great? I can’t stand to be read­ing books a year or more behind every­one else. I just gave away The Thir­teenth Tale, and only 8 or 9 peo­ple even wanted it!

Have you looked into Paper​back​swap​.com? You still have to pay postage (usu­ally 2.28) but it’s cheaper than buy­ing new. Some­times you do have to wait a while for new releases.

I man­aged to get my book fin­ished yes­ter­day (it helped tremen­dously that Mon­day was a hol­i­day for me, but not my chil­dren! A WHOLE DAY FOR MOM! WHOOO!) but just wrote my review and posted it from work. (Shhhh.)

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Taja October 15, 2008 at 12:01 pm

My tbr pile (count­ing only romance-y nov­els) started to get out of hand this year. Before, I never had more than a few romance nov­els tbr. I don’t under­stand what hap­pened, but I know that now I have trou­ble to decide what to read. At the moment, I have (only) 4o books tbr to init­mi­date me. Nev­er­the­less, I keep adding instead of read­ing. Really, I need to get a grip on myself and the tbr pile and go back to around five books (like Tee) because the way it is now doesn’t make sense.

I’m glad to hear you’ll con­tinue with the TBR chal­lenge. As it looks now, I’m sure I’ll (need to) participate.

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Angela James October 15, 2008 at 8:38 am

I know exactly how much my book buy­ing habit has been over the past three years, at least. I save every receipt. Lucky for me, that’s because I can write most of them off on taxes.

But like you, I’m bad about buy­ing books I might want to read and then not read­ing them, it’s actu­ally what’s stopped me from tak­ing advan­tage of the Fic­tion­wise sale recently. I have a met­ric ton of books that I’ve bought because peo­ple have rec­om­mended them, but my read­ing just does not keep up with my buy­ing habits.

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Phyl October 15, 2008 at 8:14 am

Heh! I know how you feel. I put myself on a bud­get. That helps. I’m try­ing really hard to be a lit­tle more dis­crim­i­nat­ing before I buy. And if I hear of some­thing I think I’ll like, but not like well enough to keep, I’ll make a point of get­ting that from the library. I have an awe­some pub­lic library where I live with a great romance col­lec­tion. What does end up hap­pen­ing though is that I feel oblig­ated to get those library books read and returned before they’re over­due, thus caus­ing me to ignore what I spent money on. I really need to re-think what I’m doing, LOL!

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Rosie October 15, 2008 at 8:01 am

Keis­hon, I fell asleep before fin­ish­ing my book OR writ­ing my review. So no TBR review for me today either.

Since sum­mer I’ve been doing my book buy­ing from a list. If it’s not on the list I can’t buy it. It’s helped alot with impulse buys.

I’m happy to hear you’re doing the tbr chal­lenge next year. The incen­tive for me is to find the gems I have hid­den in those tbr tubs of mine.

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Tee October 15, 2008 at 7:36 am

I’m unfa­mil­iar with the TBR Con­test that you’re talk­ing about (new to your web­site); but in read­ing your col­umn, I got a fair idea of it, Keis­hon. One of the most free­ing things for me within the last five years or so has been to keep a small TBR pile. It’s come to the point now where hav­ing more than five books to read at a time throws me into men­tal crazi­ness (obvi­ously I’m over-dramatizing here, but not far-off!). It was eas­ier for me to do, I’m sure, because I use the pub­lic library sys­tem 99 per­cent of the time (another great tool that you mentioned).

Good luck to you in par­ing down. Not only will you save some money, but you’ll waste less money on the books that don’t pan out in the end. You can always try them, espe­cially the hard­cov­ers, from the library. If you decide you absolutely have to have them as keep­ers, then you can buy them.

I no longer look at moun­tains of books on my table, get­ting more hyper by the minute, because I real­ize that I will never have the time to read them all. Now I read what I truly want and hope that my library-reserved books arrive well spaced and not all at one time.

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